17 Feb These are generally pleased, life of the party kinds and people like getting them around
If he does not consider either of the seem enjoyable, then I might possibly be easy with your and simply tell him which you cannot be late anymore. It may be inconvenient that you live at this point from anything, but if the guy misses two things because you allow without your, next maybe he will get the aim. (real question is - and that is more important, Unity, or becoming on time??)
Unless I'm guessing wrong, being late doesn't especially make the effort him - only you. Somehow you need to make sure he understands that it bothers you a great deal that you will be contemplating divorcing him since you dislike the tension. (This IS what you imply by "dealbreaker", isn't they?